My BFF and I have these conversations on IM. You know the ones where you are just totally free to be yourselves and not worry about other people hearing you and getting offended...or little ears listening in to mommy's converstations. Those kind. Like the one I'm sharing now. This is an everyday thing for us. If we didn't have each other I don't know how we'd get through most days as SAHM's! And yes, this is both of us stone sober.